Don’t Judge Disabled Veterans… And, Please, Leave Their Service Dogs Alone
When did we lose our compassion and respect for our fellow man?
It seems as though we are in an age of entitlement. People expect things for nothing; judge others theyâve never met; and, make assumptions that injure those most in need of healing â our veterans.
As the Founder/CEO and service dog trainer for K9 Partners for Patriots, a 501©3 nonprofit that helps veterans with service dog training, I have seen and heard things that have made my head spin.
The purpose of our program is to help veterans with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Traumatic Brain Injury and Military Sexual Trauma to regain their ability to live again with the help of a service dog. They all do very well and their progress is transformative. Their lives are being restored as well as their families⦠that is, until they take their service dogs into public areas and are confronted by those who refuse to see that the service dog is there to work for the veteran; not entertain shoppers and passersby.
Service Dog Fraud
The biggest obstacle for our veterans is the self-centered rudeness of the public. And with all the fake service dogs now surfacing, those engaged in that fraud are making it increasingly difficult for those that truly need their dogs to be able to go out into public places without being judged and questioned.
Respect the Vest
When someone asks if they can pet a service dog, our veterans are trained to politely say ânoâ and explain why. Even the dogâs vest bears a bold patch that says âSERVICE DOG, DO NOT PETâ, but too many ignore that warning. Some people are actually offended when they are asked not to pet the dog. They fail to recognize that the dog is not only the veteranâs personal property, but it is their medical equipment protected by federal and state law. To belittle them because you cannot pet their dog is unconscionable. Would you ask to pet their wheelchair or their oxygen tank?? Of course not. Would you ask to pet their child?
To pet someone elseâs dog is a privilege for which one must ask first; you have no constitutional right to do so. To ignore that and interfere with a service dogâs work is illegal. (FL Statute 413.081).
Not All Wounds Are Visible
People assume that if they canât see a disability, it doesnât exist. That is not true. You canât look at someone and know they have seizures, hearing loss or diabetes. Similarly, you canât see PTSD, TBI or MST. People challenge our veterans continuously because they donât recognize their need for a service dog. Our veterans are followed in stores and confronted with rude, intrusive comments. Often the same willfully ignorant people will continue to try and pet their dog or give the dog a treat even when asked to stop. Donât they realize that by doing this, they are preventing the dog from being able to focus on the veteran when he/she might need them the most?
What breaks my heart is when a veteran and their service dog are doing so well and then come back for weekly training with a story of abuse by the public which makes them want to withdraw again. This cannot continue.
Next time you feel compelled to pet the well-behaved pooch you see at Walmart, pay attention and back off. Not all scars are visible. Veterans and their service dogs deserve to be treated with the respect theyâve earned.
Every one is fighting a battle you know nothing about.